Even folks in happy, monogamous relationships get a charge from knowing people think they’re hot

Here’s the thing: you can appreciate your progress and your results without casting everything aside. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying feeling like you’re more attractive without actually doing anything about it. Just because you’re not going to the party doesn’t mean it’s not nice to be invited. So there’s your assignment, AGU: dig into those beliefs and really interrogate them. Be bluntly honest with yourself in your answers. Examine them and figure out how much…

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